Infertility is like a bad break up

Infertility is like a bad break up.  You were once in love and dwelled on this love just about every day, then the love betrayed you but it was SO much a part of your every day life that you can't just stop loving it.  You run back to the love because giving up hope just seems wrong.  Only to be hurt again.
And again. 

AND.

A.

GAIN.

The only way to get over it is a clean break, cutting out EVERY reminder, avoiding ANY mention of it.  Cut it out until you can't even think of the good times anymore, because that's what makes you run back.
Then one day you wake up and realize you are ready to fall in love again....with something else.